By: Divina Mathur
Feminism is defined as ‘the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes’ or ‘Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the genders.’ This basically means that feminism is an ideology, as well as a movement to accomplish a goal – which is women getting equal rights and opportunities as men do in today’s day and age. Feminism doesn’t mean a battle of the sexes – it means that all genders get equal rights.
Many women worldwide are oppressed, solely based on their gender. This is
upsetting, because in numerous cases, men are given the upper hand, purely
because they are men. Men are often preferred over women, because they are
considered ‘strong’ and they are allegedly don’t show any emotions, where as
women are known to be weak and the ‘damsel(s) in distress.’ Men are supposed to be the one’s earning the money for the family, where as women are supposed to cook, clean, and look after the children. This gets on my nerves because I know numerous women who have taken care of their entire family – they had a job, earned enough for their family, cooked, cleaned, and looked after the children.
One of these women is my grandmother. When my father was in the 10th grade, my grandfather passed away. My grandmother was broken, but continued living her life. She was her children’s backbone, and her children were hers. Now, my grandmother didn’t just get a job because she didn’t have the financial support. She had one even before the incident took place, and despite the fact that her life was a mess, she continued earning for her family, and was successful in raising 2 strong and accomplished children. This is just an example of why women should have equal rights as men – and that depriving someone – let alone an entire gender – of their rights based on something that isn’t even remotely justified is purely illogical.
Another thing that deeply angers me is that women aren’t given proper
education, because people believe that they’ll just be married off and then
completely forgotten about – hence education won’t be necessary. My helper faced something very similar. She was only permitted to study till the 4 th grade, and then she was sent off to become a maid. She has told me quite a few times that her dream is to finish her education, and one day, I hope I can fulfil it for her.
Coming back to feminism, many people believe that the idea of it is to give
women more rights than men – which is not true! The idea of feminism is to have equal right for all genders, not for one gender to have more than another. These mislead ideas cause confusion, thus resulting in pushing feminism further away from achieving it’s goals.
Women are slowly, yet surely getting the rights they deserve. It’s a slow
process, but it will take over the world, and inequality based on gender will
surely go down. And I truly hope it does, because the future generations will be brought up in a fair world – a world they deserve.